13 December, 2011

Life is Demanding..

Being put on the earth is not the most convenient thing, trust me. If you are born, you need a life.And a Life takes a lot to be a quintessential life one most likely would wish to live. All life we long for happiness,indeed the definition of happiness is different for each person.Some feel happy about possession of Merc and for others its Nano.Alright that is too materialistic. Lets take another example, some one's idea of happiness might be to hit a mall after a movie and for one its hitting the bed with book in one hand and mug of coffee in another.Thus happiness itself so is a very subjective thing. Regardless of it, we all seek happiness for life,and what actually block our happiness is our perception that our happiness is blocked.Instead of being happy, we want happiness to come to us and dance in front of our eyes. Perhaps we need to change the perception of happiness first.Easy said than done.I guess more than be happy we want to be perceived happy by others so first we need to be self content in every which way possible.let not our happiness depend on others.We should better not let others be source of our happiness in such a trivial manner.

The best way to be self content is to be thankful to God for everything he has given us,though at times its alright to be cranky(I'm always cranky).

Earlier i assumed that if Jeannie grants me three wishes, i will be happiest person for rest of my life, i was wrong.Within the introspection of split second i realised that if i choose just three wishes i'll be left out on so many things, absence of which will never let me be happy. Here we come full circle.Yes, Life demands possession ,life demands emotions,life demands comfort..it demands to be perfect,to be one of its kind.Trust me, Life is demanding, very demanding!!